Tuesday, December 22, 2015

2015 coming to a close

2015 has been a pretty eventful year for me.
Lots of new stuff and experience, mostly for the better

  1. Rainie came into my life!
  2. Took up a new expanded role in my workplace - couldn't be happier that I had done this
  3. Visited many new places this year outside of the usual SEA cities - Prague, Sydney, Orlando, Miami, Tokyo, Beijing, Shenzhen, Hong Kong, Taipei, Delhi
  4. Completed my 3rd 70.3, barely
  5. Family holiday at Sunway lagoon
  6. Family holiday in Australia
  7. Mini family holiday in Tokyo
  8. Joined Team Fishlike to become a part time swim coach
  9. Completed installment payments for my apartment
 There are much more that I'll need to spend more time to collate in the end of year summary


Upcoming highlights for 2016:
  1. Busselton 703 - confirmed
  2. Phuket 703 - TBC
  3. Mini family holiday in Perth
  4. Family Taiwan holiday - confirmed
  5. Investments -  TBC in Jan
Had been contemplating the possibility to upgrade my bike for future races, but with the impending heavy investments, I guess I'll still stick to my old mantra of Man over Machine for my bike and use my old road bike for yet another race in Perth.
This time I gotta get over the bad habit of not properly planning my training schedule to match my races, and get a better result in Busselton 703.

Watch this space for more detailed review next week

Saturday, October 03, 2015

Having fun at work - this is a good week

It has been 6 months since I stepped into this new role, and I had learnt lots along the way.
Moving from a role that manages channel partners directly, into a more withdrawn but strategic role, yet having to exert more influence on a greater number of partners across a much bigger region, through other people that you have no direct control over yet being responsible for the outcome.

Yes it sounds complex, and it indeed is not simple.
A concept that is not easily understood.
A higher value add that isn't common across the market yet.

6 months on, and I'm having fun in this role.

Just concluded our Annual partner conference training this week.
Months of preparation work has gone into this, and with even more time and effort invested into this in the last 2 weeks.

With a key objective of transforming a traditionally dull and business-centric annual partner conference that people do not really look forward to, into a high-energy, engaging and fun event that still achieves business goals, an event that people will be anticipating in the future.

It felt great to receive plenty of appreciative compliments at the end of the day.
Especially those coming from the big bosses.
I had showed everyone how business goals can be achieved while having fun doing it.


A bigger stage to showcase my skills and creativity to create fun, energy and achieve business needs at the same time.


Apart from this, last Sunday's swim introductory class went exceptionally smooth as well.

Coach was fretting over the low sign up rates from the last few sessions of introductory classes, and had approached me for advice on how to turn things around.

After breaking down the steps and identifying the issue that we had banked the entire intro class into 1 single make-or-break swim drill was crucial. Turning this around by improvising the swim drill on the go, we literally performed magic and touched gold.

Even though that was my 7th intro swim class that I had conducted so far, neither me nor my fellow coaches had ever seen swim students breaking into rapturous applause after successfully doing a swim drill with them. None of my fellow coaches had seen the same response too.

The sign up rate jumped to 71% from the low 0% to 20% in classes conducted by others.

This is a good week, and the best thing is that I'm really having fun doing my work now.
Much happier than before!

Tuesday, August 25, 2015

Sweet Ryan quotes

"I wait for mummy" @ the bedroom lying on the bed, waiting for mummy to come back to accompany him to sleep # sweetRyan

"daddy go work" @ the bedroom when I was trying to accompany him to sleep #mustdobetter

Monday, August 10, 2015

Race Report 703 Cebu 2015

This must be my toughest race till date.
A different kind of Ironman race.
More hardcore than Ironman...

Pretty eventful trip as well (Shitty Silkair service)

Friday (Race -2 Days)
Got Dad to ferry us to the airport early in the morning at 6.30am.
Had a good workout trying to fit the bike case into his van but still made it nonetheless.
Flight was at 9am - shifted from a much more comfortable timing of my original booking at 2.20pm.
No thanks to a very helpful Silkair canceling the direct flights to Cebu, and we had to take a transit at Davao. (though this was announced sometime ago, but it was still shit from Silkair)
Ryan and Rainie were on good behaviour so the flight was pretty manageable.
For her first flight, Rainie is definitely much easier to handle than Ryan.
Silkair Shit #1: Out of 3 of my checked in luggage with Priority tags, 2 failed to appear at the luggage carousel at Cebu airport. Turns out that more than 15 pax were affected and there was a crowd at the lost luggage office in Cebu Airport. Silkair probably reloaded the luggage into the return flight. What made it worse, is that the missing luggage were the important baby stuff. And this meant that we had to survive without all the baby necessities until the luggage was returned to us, earliest by the next Silkair flight to Cebu (next day). CRAP... other passengers had missing bike cases. lucky for them that the race was not on the next day.
Long story short, the luggage was subsequently sent to our hotel at around 8pm (we touched down at 2.35pm). Silkair probably unloaded the luggage at Davao and got Cebu Air to fly them back to Cebu again.

Saturday (Race -1 Day)
Ahhhh. A full good day of time to prepare properly for the race.
Got Dear to take care of the kids while I was planning to go for the ride out session. Turns out that my rear derailleur was out of alignment when I tried to cycle. Had to send the bike to the mechanic for a quick fix. Missed the ride out.
Chose to go for the swim-out instead. The water conditions was absolutely stunning and fantastic.
Just like what I had been told - literally swim with the fishes.
There wasn't much undercurrent too.
It will be a good swim tomorrow.
Met up with the TI interviewee, and treated him to lunch together with my family, especially since he made a special trip from Manila to Cebu just to meet me.
Spent more time with him, going through his objectives and intentions for engaging TI, as well as filming his swim live.
Ended him interview by teaching him some drills and pointers to improve his swim.
Brought the family to the Race expo after finishing the race brief - the range of merchandise was not as good as PJ, and it was simply too crowded to be able to find or buy anything in comfort. Ended up settling for a simple set of printed tees for the family.
This time, our dinner was much better prepared. Brought along our own cooker and pasta, so we did our own carbo loading in the comfort of our hotel room. Think this is a pretty neat arrangement, that we totally avoid any surprises/ shocks on the dinner before the race (Thanks to the bad experience at PJ)

Sunday (Race Day)
Had a good night of rest from around 9.30pm till 3am.
Couldn't force any shit out of the system even after 30 minutes on the throne.
Gave up and went for breakfast.
Shangri-la arrangement is much better than what we had at Taiwan or PJ. It was a full breakfast buffet that started early for the athletes.
The beach was filled with athletes warming up for the swim, and the atmosphere was electric!
The sea was lined with rows and rows of boats just outside of the swim course, with plenty of supporters drumming. Plenty of spectators and supporters lined the coast line to watch the swim.

SWIM
It was a self-seeding rolling start system.
I originally chose the 36-40min group, but somehow went into the 31-35 min group.
Just as well, since I can probably catch some draft, so maybe I could be faster.
The beach head was pretty rocky, and there was no way to do any dolphin dives to get into the deeper end. Dolphin kicks worked very well here since the water was too shallow to go into a full freestyle.
Once I was out in the water, it was just a matter of focusing on controlling my breathing to avoid panting - which I did pretty well.

This was still the first time that I'm putting what I had learnt from TI it into good use in an Open Water Swim race. To my surprise, I started to overtake lots of people very easily.
My stroke length has increased considerably and I was then literally overtaking people in slow motion. Plenty of time for me to observe swimmers in front of me and plan what is my next move to overtake them. It was pretty fun to be bossing around in the water!
Gained some useful lessons from this swim:
Blocking - learnt how to inculcate blocks against kicks (from both freestyle and breast stroke) into my usual strokes, so I'm protected and don't have to pedal extra hard for overtaking attempts
Sighting - Only practiced it on Monday, and put it into real effective use within the same week.
Drafting - Still something that I need to work on. Managed to draft a few people but overtook them too quickly, instead of latching to them for a longer distance.
Breath Control - Very conscious effort on controlling the exhalation. Ended the swim course without losing my breath!
Managed to finish the swim feeling fresh, with a nice timing of 43.33
Not too shabby, and it feels good to put my skills to the real test!

T1
This is my first time coming into T1 with plenty of bikes still on the rack!
My swim had always been average or slower in the past, so it was pretty refreshing to be one of the first few to emerge from the swim.
Ditched the flying mount and went for normal wearing of socks and cycling shoes before pushing the bike out for mounting - so that my feet will be clear of debris for the long ride.

Bike
Feels really good to be able to get out of T1 that early.
The streets were lined with throngs of cheering spectators and supporters, with only a few participants before or after me, so the feeling was exceptionally special, that people were cheering for me as if I'm a pro athelete. Hahahahhaha
Was hitting around 30+ km/h for the first 5km, and was planning to head into a "right turn" in the aero position, but as I approached the bend, the layout of the spectators didn't look quite right and I began to suspect that the bend was more acute than what the "right turn" signage said, and I started to jam on my brakes, skidding twice in the process, but still managed to regain my composure, just before crashing into the crowd.
Then I realize that this "right turn" was more of like a "U-turn".
Can't trust the signages anymore.
As I rode along, and picked up a bottle of water at the first water station, there were plenty of spectators shouting "bottle, bottle!", asking the atheletes to throw the empty bottles to them, presumably that they will be able to exchange the bottles for some money.
As I emptied one of the bottles, I saw a couple of outstretched hands asking for bottles infront.
Without slowing down, I just rode on and attempted to hand the empty bottle to the asking hand.
Little did I expect, that the adult spectator just grabbed both the bottle and my right hand, causing me to lose balance and fall on my left hand side.

Bike crash at 12km
And a pretty nasty one at that.
As I recovered onto my feet, I started to feel the burn on my left scapula and hips, and the medics rushed over.
The tip of my aerobar had broken off, the base bar and gears shifters were out of alignment, front brake calipers were out of position as well.
The medics immediately whipped out their first aid box, and started to wash and apply the antiseptic onto my wounds.
It was damned painful but I didn't even harbour the thoughts of surrendering the race just like that.
Got the medics to bandage my left elbow, so that I can get into the aero position again with my left elbow on the elbow pad.
The ambulance came along within minutes, but I just chose to continue with the race.
As I got on to the bike again, the crowd broke into rapturous cheers.

Laborious remaining 78km on the bike

It was 2 laps of to-and-fro on Mandaue City, and the strength of the wind could be felt. Headwind going in and tail wind coming out. So my speed varied between 30+ to low 20s.
Didn't maintain nutrition discipline for my salt stick and both quads started to cramp up as I exited Mandaue City and started the climb onto the bridge. It was a tricky affair, as the climb speed had to be just fast enough to avoid falling off the bike, and slow enough to avoid both quads locking down at the same time, which will cause me to fall off the bike again. And I couldn't disengage my feet from the pedal clips lest I trigger another wave of cramps.
Finally managed to make it to the apex of the bridge, took my salt stick and started the descend, which is always my forte. Just too bad that the pseudo-U-turn was at the bottom of the bridge so I couldn't take advantage of the downhill ride.


T2
Remembering my previous race, I chose not to do the flying dismount for fear of the searing heat from the asphault. Did a more conservative normal dismount and walked the bike in.
Took my time to sort out myself. Popped another gel and salt stick, swapped my wet socks for a fresh pair of dry socks to go with the running shoes.
The only problem was that I had been holding back my pee halfway through the bike, and had to go to the toilet in T2.
The pot-a-loo was just inside the transition, so I just popped in, and endured the pain of pulling the trisuit over the wounds, did my business, and ran out of the loo towards the nearest marshall to get help to pull my trisuit over my wounds (PAIN) to zip up.
This T2 is definitely the longest ever Transition I had ever done

Run

Joyce caught me when I was running out of T2, and I just quickly flashed my wounds to her. (Note: next time I can just tell her my latest projection of how long I'll take to finish the run)
The cramps came back fairly quickly and I was then walking mostly throughout the entire run.
The route was pretty interesting though, traversing through the rural village with the locals all out in force, lining up the streets, watching the athletes go by.
Water points and aid stations were plentiful and very near to each other, with iced water, gatorade, coke all available in large quantities.
The crowd and logistics support is definitely the best that I had ever experienced in all of my races.
Tried to re-ignite my run a many times but couldn't sustain for a long period before the cramps settled in again, so ended up with a walk-jog strategy to finish the race.
There was a long stretch of unsheltered area at the far end of the run route, and the sun was pretty strong, to the point that the direct rays were actually hurting on the bare skin.
I had to keep dousing my wounds whenever I could get any iced water (PAIN PAIN and kept exposing the wounds to the blazing sun (PAIN PAIN PAIN) especially when I couldn't apply any more sunblock to it.
Finally managed to limp pass the finish line in 2.58
Pretty awful timing, but at least I still managed to endure the PAIN PAIN PAIN PAIN PAIN till the end.

Summary
Swim - 43.33
T1 - 3.33
Bike - 3.30.46
T2 - 6.51
Run - 2.58.08
Total - 7.22.51

The Good
  1. Getting local advice was useful. I caught up with 2 locals whom had done the race last year, and got some useful advice about the swim from them. Perhaps I can try to do the same for my future races as well. Knowing the race course better and the general behaviour of the participants definitely helps.
  2. The quiet 45 minutes of sitting on the beach alone was useful? in helping me to cultivate the urge to poo just before the swim starts.
  3. The new running cap with extra cloth at the back was extremely useful in keeping the back of my neck away from the blazing sun. Must bring for the next race
  4. Brought along rubber bands to set up my bike for flying mount. Even though I abandoned this strategy, it is still useful to bring them along for races as back up
  5. Swim was awesome. 
  6. Pasta dinner in our hotel room for carbo-loading was good! Much more manageable and less stressful than starting the race early by competing with the other athletes for a dinner spot.
  7. Fresh socks for the run leg is useful!
The Bad
  1. Bike crash: I was too naive to forget about the cardinal rule of cycling - no physical contact. Next time just throw the bottle. Scratches on the bottles is infinitely better than scratches on me and my bike!
  2. Nutrition discipline - need to be more stringent about this. Can't afford to miss the timing for the gels and salt sticks!
  3. Maybe I should change my Oakley shades - been feeling that it's too tight for me, causing headaches along the way. It has been like this for the last few races.


Silkair Shit #2
The ground staff couldn't find Rainie's ticket when we were checking in at the Cebu airport. Took probably around 30 minutes before they finally managed to find the ticket to allow us to check in. Seriously what's wrong with Silkair....
(side not: also my bad not to have brought along Rainie's hardcopy receipts as I thought I had the softcopies in my gmail, which was not to be. Always bring back ups!)


Wednesday, July 29, 2015

Ryan turns 3!

It is Ryan's 3 years old birthday today
Had a mini celebration for him in School today, and another mini celebration at home with the family on last Saturday.

It seemed just yesterday that Ryan was born, and now he is a big toddler.
Facebook flashed the photo that I had taken at his birth and posted exactly 3 years ago.

Now he is getting much more inquisitive and talkative, and can understand instructions better.
He had been telling everyone in the last few days, that "my birthday is coming"
It's really cute and sweet to see him enjoying himself with all the attention lavished on him during the celebrations.

He has really grown much.
But he is still my precious baby no matter what age he is at.

Seeing him happy, makes every effort that Dear and me do for him, worthwhile.
It will be Rainie's turn in 6 months time :)


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It's almost here.
3 more days to my next 70.3 race in Cebu.

Preparations have been mixed for this race.
My target time to achieve will be:
Swim - 42min
Bike - 3h 30min
Run - 2h 30min
Total target time to beat = 6h 45min (including transition time)

I had done a 39min for the swim in a pool, but will need to give some allowance for open water conditions, so 42min may be a good target to go for.

Only managed to clock up to 80km on the bike in one session, speed not really fantastic so I'm just targeting to survive the bike within 3h 30min in good shape so that it doesn't screw up my run too much.

Hadn't been running a lot recently. The last 10km run at East Coast was the longest that I had ran in months, and that wasn't too pretty either. I will just need to avoid picking up injuries on the bike like what happened in Taiwan, and if there are sufficient water along the way, I should be able to survive the run comfortably.


Wednesday, June 24, 2015

38 days to Cebu

As the countdown to Cebu draws down, I'm really running out of time to clock the mileage required to finish the race comfortably.

Swim - Definitely not an issue anymore. With much improved technique, I'll probably will swim much faster and easier than any previous races, even if my fitness is optimal. Did a 1.5km pool swim ytd and clocked around 32min. Guess I should be targeting to clock 40min for the 1.9km OWS in Cebu. A good 9 to 10 min faster than the last 70.3

Cycle - Always the biggest problem for me. Trying to clock more hours and mileage on the saddle. Gotta grind the indoor trainer more and ride outside more often in the early morning during weekdays. At least it is an improvement from previous races that I don't restrict myself to riding outside only on weekend mornings.

Run - Traditionally a non-issue for me. Just have to put in the miles with good form and perhaps I can target to complete the run leg below 2h30m as a conservative estimate. Not doing enough brick trainings yet so it is still hard to tell how I'll manage the T2 transitions this time.

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Will be making a work trip to KL this weekend together with my head coach to conduct swimming classes. It will be interesting and I can gain more exposure and get first hand knowledge on expanding the swim business outside of SG. This will be an important step to determining if the swim business will be a good alternative career to pursue.

Wednesday, May 27, 2015

More changes to come??

Took on the new role from the start of April, and made my first trip to Europe for a training event.
It was pretty interesting to sit in on business review meetings with European distributors to find out that they face pretty much similar issues with my Asian distributors.
It was a good trip to learn new stuff and consolidate my experiences and knowledge as well.
Not to mention the extra few days of holidays spent visiting around Prague. At least it was something different compared to my past solo trips in USA.

Also made my first official business trip to China and India.
Feels shiok to have impressed and shocked the Chinese counterparts with fluent command of both English and Chinese.
India was a mini culture shock to me though. The climate was excruciating hot, and the traffic conditions was a culmination of the worst of SEA traffic:
  • chaos and extreme close proximity to the next vehicle of Vietnam
  • poor road conditions of Indonesia
  • high volume and speed of Thailand
  • dusty like Cambodia

I had joined the TI swim coach team and started my path towards a swim coach in April. Been spending a lot of time training and learning, with a possibility of this becoming a full time business venture in the future if things go right for me.
This is probably one of the more secure routes for me to take to having my own (joint) business by gaining a good set up of my base network, knowledge and skills


Scored IPPT Gold again during my ICT under the new format.
I can safely say that I didn't train at all for this IPPT.
I was mainly busy with swim classes in the last few months, and didn't have time to put in speed run workouts. And as Cebu is getting nearer, I made the conscious choice to train for my bike instead of training on the 2.4km run.

Ignoring results on the new static stations, I did exceptionally well for this IPPT.
Still managed to clock an incredible 9.58 for my 2.4km run under the sweltering heat at 10AM.
I was expecting to clock around 11 minutes with my current physical conditioning.
So I should still be able to score Gold on the old system since the cut-off is still at 10.14
It's really a classic case of mind over body for this run, but the over-exertion effects were quite pronounced this time, as it took me 30 minutes to catch my wind immediately after the run, and another 3 days to recover from the muscle aches.
This isn't really problems of aging, but more of a fitness issue.
Must make it a point to do consistent running workouts!

66 days to Cebu!

Monday, March 09, 2015

Changes changes changes

Had been able to meet up with quite a number of friends/ex-colleagues recently for CNY business gatherings, and it seems that the news of my new job has travelled far and wide.

I have been in my current regional sales position for 5.5 years.
Finally I'm going to make a step up to cover the entire APAC region as a program manager.



It's a pretty rare opportunity to be able to cover China. (rest of APAC as well)
This will be a huge step upwards, and there will be a risk of not being able to do well in the new role. Then again, life is about taking calculated risks and learning new things.

Not moving and staying in my old position may not necessarily be a good move (pun intended), given the crazy upheaval and restructuring going on in the company.
My position was getting untenable as well.


I had received friendly advice that Gen Y people like me are sometimes too eager to move up the corporate ladder when we believe that we have reached a certain level of skill maturity, but don't realize that we may not built up enough network base to help bail us out in times of need.

Well this is true to a certain extent, but it really depends on what one wants in life.
Building career can be like doing investments.
Some like slow, low risk and returns - Bonds
Some like average returns and risk - Equities
Some like high risk high return short timeframe - Forex CFD

Gen Y people probably belong to the Equities group.
Go along with the ride. Enjoy the journey.
Whatever the outcome, que sera sera


Will be officially starting in the new role on 1st April, but I had already started work in the background so that I can hit the ground and start running immediately.

So far things are moving pretty nicely for me after attending many calls. The skills and knowledge that I had picked up over the last 5.5 years is serving me well now.
Definitely issues will still probably pop up from time to time, and I can foresee that there will be times in the future when I meet with difficulties, and start to digress if I should had stayed in the sales position.

When that happens, I just have to remember 1 word:

MAJULAH!

Tuesday, February 10, 2015

172 days to Cebu 70.3

And I'm growing fat, losing my stamina, not doing proper training at all.
Haiz

Gotta come up with a shape up plan fast.
Difficulty is not in the actual physical exercise, but more on the logistics and support for the two kids at home.
It will be irresponsible to just scoot off for my own workouts and dump both under the care of Dear at one go at this point.

Friday, February 06, 2015

Rainie reaching 1 month of age soon

Time passes really quickly.
Rainie is turning 1 month old tomorrow.

Her baby shower will be much more managed this time, not as over-the-top as what we previously did for Ryan.

It isn't about whether we love Ryan more so his baby shower was a much bigger event. Nor is it that we are tired and just want the easy way out.

With the first child, our world revolved about Ryan. If there are choices to be made, we will always choose to pay the premium for supposedly "better stuff". This ranged from diapers to milk powder to the size of his baby shower and 1 year old birthday party.

Was it absolutely necessary to do that?

The politically answer was: I want the best for my kid, and I can afford it.

Taking a step back, looking at the stuff that we had done.
Elaborate baby showers/birthday parties looked good and felt good. For the parents and grandparents.

Does the kid know or appreciate that he had an elaborate party?
Probably no, and didn't matter that much.

So the question will go back to the point, whether it is necessary to throw a huge party for the baby?
My Answer now? It really depends on your POV.

We have to get more pragmatic in life, and prioritize the really important stuff.
Throwing a baby shower is still a significant event, as it is an important milestone for baby.
Saving the resources in holding a smaller event, and spending it on the more important stuff for baby, that's what really matters.

When the kids grow up, and start to better understand human relationships/ interactions, then it will be the correct time to place a bigger emphasis on such events. It doesn't mean that it is ok to go over-the-top then. It's the quality that matters.
And how the quality is defined? It is really up to the parents' upbringing for the kids.

Hmmmmm.
Suddenly getting philosophical tonight when I was going to write something else...

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Important milestones for Dear and Me:
As of 3 Feb 2015, we are made our final payment for our HDB-CPF loan.
So technically speaking, we are finally debt-free (not taking into account the internal processing time for HDB to clear this up)

Looking back, it was a good decision for both of us to take up the BTO flat back in 2008, just when the property prices were heating up.
We got our HDB apartment at a relatively low price (compared to my peers who bought later), so naturally the loan that we took is much lower.




Of course our CPF OA were emptied back in 2008/09 when we signed the documents, so the loan that we eventually took up was around 60% of the total price for our flat.
It took us about 4 years from TOP to clear our loan, which is relatively fast in this era.
I insisted on making consistent partial payments every year to bring down the loan size as quickly as possible, since the loan interest was higher (0.1% is still higher!) than the CPF OA interest, so it wouldn't make sense to let the OA balance grow and waste away.

Having a peace of mind now that we are technically debt-free is priceless.
With a secured base of a debt-free home, the next mission is to grow our retirement funds.

I'll need to pad up my OA & SA quickly so that I can use it to invest in a second property.
OA + SA have to be >50% of prevailing Minimum Sum before it can be used for payment on 2nd property
Still some distance to go.

Good thing I realized last year (better late than never!) the Minimum Sum Top Up scheme was going to help with income tax relief, and started to pump some cash in then. And just did the same for this year as well.

Getting income tax relief and bringing up my SA balance quickly so that I can use CPF OA for 2nd property installment payment? Sounds like a good deal to me!

I see it as my duty as a father and husband to do proper financial planning, so that the family doesn't have to worry that much about finances as we grow up/old.

Tuesday, January 13, 2015

Better pacing for Rainie

As the old Chinese saying goes
第一胎照书养, 第二胎照猪养

It definitely holds some water.

Having went through Ryan's infant stage, we are not as uptight and panicky when it comes to Rainie.
Afterall, we now know that infants are not as fragile as we first thought.

Some well thought processes, even though are for the good of the infant, does not make sense to execute daily, and people end up with truncated versions which get the job done as well.

Taking extra care to pace ourselves better this time round, and not go all out with burning passion and enthusiasm from the start, and get burnt out in no time. There was still time for me to go for a swim today

Caring for baby is not a 100m sprint, No, not even a marathon.
It's a full time whole-life-encompassing Ironman journey that lasts till your last breath.

The old photo collage that I had done for Ryan's baby shower is still hanging on my living room wall, and it makes an easy reference to compare Rainie's everyday changes to Ryan. I gonna do a similar photo collage for Rainie's baby shower too



Sunday, January 11, 2015

Precious Princess Rainie

My precious princess Rainie has finally descended into my world on 8 Jan 2015!

It only seemed like yesterday when Ryan was just born, and now we have a new member in the family!

Gonna get real busy again but I'm loving every moment of it!

2014 Review

Jan -
Feb - Family Retreat at Hong Kong
Mar - Completed 2XU 42km run
Apr - Completed Putra Jaya 70.3
May -
Jun -
Jul - IPPT gold again!
Aug -  Visited Yosemite
Sep - Completed TriFactor OD. Started Stock class and swim class
Oct - Holiday @ Bali with Dear & Ryan
Nov - Done SwimExpoAsia (not considered as completed due to a DNF in 1 race)
Dec - Completed 13th installation of SCMS and crossing the finish line in hand with Weicheng for the 1st time


As I get more experienced in Triathlon, I get more selective of the races that I join.
Racing for race experience isn't necessary for me anymore.

How did I fare on my 2014 To Do List:

Clock 2 x 70.3 Races - Only managed to do 1 this year. Wanted to do a 2nd one but have to put it off till next year as Lishan was pregnant and it won't be feasible to have a Race Holiday.

Test a proper business idea 
Plucked up the courage to approach a couple of vendors for product distributorship.
The initial business plan was good, but couldn't reach a mutual agreement on pricing so I decided to drop the idea.
On hindsight, it was good that I didn't forcibly enter a bad business, as it wouldn't be sustainable at the prices that I was given. No point jumping in when the conditions ain't right. Especially after seeing my BIL sports venture fall through after 1 year of effort.

1 Full overseas trip with Dear and Ryan
Bali!

Expand portfolio by 75%
The initial goal was pretty random when I first decided on 75%.
I'm glad that I went in the other direction of going for proper classes and learning more rather than just going after illusion of having a bigger portfolio = a bigger safety blanket
Bigger portfolio of bad stocks will just push me further away from my goal.

Pick up martial arts
This was replaced by my swim and stock classes.
The original motivation for martial arts was to keep things fresh and to keep learning new stuff. Martial arts definitely is still on my list as one of the to do items, but choosing the correct skill to learn at the correct time, and with time-skill compounding (it works like interest compounding), it is a correct choice to pick up trading and swimming first than martial arts.
Learning to trade properly earlier means I got more time for compounding effects.
Learning good swim techniques means I get more focused on what I should be doing in my Ironman trainings rather than just going after aerobic & anaerobic gains which come and goes.

Clock 3 interviews
Now this is something which I should have really done much better.
I'm definitely too far into my comfort zone that even though I kept saying that I want to look for new jobs but didn't even bother to find the time to update my resume and send it out, much less spend time looking for openings.
However, the good thing is that some of the extra stuff which I did, beyond my scope of work, has unexpectedly opened new horizons for me, as it lead me to new roles and even possibly new business that I can operate.
On the 3x interviews target that I had set, I had only managed to do 1x.
And it was an internal interview, which went pretty well.
Hopefully I will get some good news within the next 2 weeks.

Time to write 2015 goals!

Thursday, January 08, 2015

Management Skills Nugget

Recent issues had got me thinking about my own management style, which I can summarize as below:


Managing your team well is similar to commanding your troops well.

A good leader should have set well defined expectations in his team, and train his team to understand his actions and the rationale behind it. The team shall be well drilled in their own responsibilities, so that when issues arise, they will be able to broadly predict what will the leader do, and they will be able to react quickly, sometimes even without direct input from the leader.

Unclear directions within the team will create confusion that will result in uncertainty and the team will not know how to react in crisis/situations.

Confusion has it's place, and that is on the battlefield, and reserved for the enemies. Not your own troops.




一个好的领导者要懂得如何带兵。
操兵是为了要让兵士知道如何应对号令, 日后在战场上才不会兵荒马乱

战场上的混乱应该留给敌人,而不是自己的士兵

当士兵无法理解号令,那将领就是个失败者